Fake influencers: The agents of manufactured reality
How
many public figures do you follow on various social media
platforms?
It’s great to be up-to-date with what’s going on
in their life, isn’t it?
Maybe you’re a big fan of his/her
work or post feed. Their presence on social media ensures that they
stay relevant to the culture and give their followers a chance to get
a peek into their lives.
A good amount of following can be used
to create awareness, raise money for a cause and create a strong
community. On the flip-side, it can also be used to push
products/courses that benefit only the ones who sell them, and imbibe
ideologies that are biased and serve no good to society. Many of such
influencers sell us manufactured reality time and time again.
It
can severely affect our well-being as being the consumers of the
same.
There’s a lot of political tension in the
world. People divide themselves based on countries, beliefs, races,
genders, and ideologies. Most of them are just driven by selective
people who are followed by the masses. Not only it divides the
people, but it also restricts them from deciding what’s right for
them. You listen to your parents and you might not always agree with
them. And I agree that they might be wrong as well, but we all know
that the ultimate purpose of their thoughts or actions is our
progress.
What about the certain politicians and public figures
you’ve been listening to?
They don’t care what you do as
long as their agenda is being followed by the masses. I’m not
saying that you shouldn’t support anyone. I’m just asking you to
think once before you accept any ideology.
With that being said,
now don’t say that I’m trying to influence your thinking in some
way.๐
I’m not your parent but it’s for your good.
I
have a friend that I must tell you about. You might know him or
maybe, you are that person. As he graduated from high school, he
wanted to do something great. In the process, he started following
people who claimed to motivate and help people reach their
goals.
Everything was great until he started getting frustrated
because of his poor results even after following the things that they
preached. Moreover, the lifestyle that they showed made him feel bad
about his’.(Most of which was just too exaggerated and most
possibly fake!)
He wanted all the things that were being shown
in the posts. His definition of success changed from doing great work
to attending pool parties with bikini-clad women, driving sports
cars, and having unlimited access to weed and alcohol.
He was
more focused on his lifestyle to convince himself that he’s doing
good in his life. Now, this might be us in a lot of ways. I still
remember the days when I was sad about my tanned skin just because my
favorite actor endorsed a fairness cream!
Some of you might have
been sad about your weight or eating disorders and some of you are
insecure about your looks. Many people feel discontent about their
“imperfect” life whenever they see someone that has something
they don’t.
Unknown |
What makes you feel bad about your
life?
Fear, disgust, and anger are some of the basic negative
emotions. These emotions are being leveraged by political parties,
marketing companies, and influencers for us to make choices based on
them.
You think of losing weight for better health, there’s
always a course that claims to make you slim in a month(Without
Exercise!)
You’re struggling through a breakup and want to
move on, there’s always a course to make you a confident alpha
man/alpha woman in 15 days!
You want the best for your country,
there’s a lot of politicians who will brainwash you to push their
agenda.
Notice a common theme here?
All your emotions are
being used to make you take decisions that aren’t yours.
You
might think, who would take such weird courses?
Well, some
people would do anything to get rid of their insecurities.
To
tell you, there’s a course that will make you an entrepreneur in 6
months.
If this is true by any chance, the government should use
a big chunk of its money to train the youth for becoming
entrepreneurs.
Eleanor Brown |
We can’t control our emotions and I
don’t expect you to do that cause we’re all human beings. Keeping
negativities inside will only make you vulnerable to making wrong
decisions. Instead, you can promise yourself that you won’t be a
follower of any person. You’d only follow a person by pressing the
follow button and not by accepting all the things that they show you.
Admire a person’s quality instead of accepting him/her as your role
model and believing that the person is perfect in all aspects.
Only
you know what makes you happy. You may want a lot of things but only
the things that you genuinely care about will make you satisfied.
Rest all are the means to impress people you don’t even care about
at the cost of your happiness.
Social media platforms are
wonderful to express thoughts and ideas to the world. Selling
something is good as well. As long as you feel pleasure in using
those platforms, it’s great!
But as soon as you feel jealousy,
anger, or any other drive while scrolling, acknowledge your emotions
and move on. Think twice before you react or get hurt
emotionally.
And most importantly, don’t let anyone make you
feel bad about your own life.
Every post of that six-packed
millionaire is meant to expand his cannabis business, every post of
that Instagram model is meant to sell her cosmetics; so don’t feel
bad about yourself.
They’re doing just their job.
You
have a beautiful life and you have all that you need!
Huh!
I wish someone had told me these things back when I was insecure
about myself.
Before I stop writing, I would like to mention a
few of the public figures that spit the bitter truth of life on all
the social media platforms.
Gary Vaynerchuk, Jordan Peterson,
and Kobe Bryant(late) are the ones who paint a real picture about
life, success, and happiness.
Don’t take my word for sure,
it’s all on you!
Last but not the least, you can follow me on
the social media platforms linked below if you think that my words
have helped you in any way. Your comments on this post will mean a
lot to me.
See you all soon, Take care!
Bro, awesome writing. Keep going..
ReplyDeleteThank you very much Ayush! Yes, I'll keep writing!
DeleteBrilliant article brother, these fake influencers and the negativity of social media is corrupting our minds daily and we don't know. I hope this article will help people understand their values better
ReplyDeleteYes! And the surprising part is, everyone goes through this phase. I thought I should address it somehow. Thanks for your compliment and support๐
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Wooh , Really you read my mind I am in search of these article I gotta you. The story that you said about guys is closely similar to me . It had just happen few days ago but now things got clear because of you .I am guys spending time in socialmedia and waste my time and after that I realised the mistake .This goes on every day cycle but now I am change. Due to this reason I had rarely go through instagram,facebook and also in Linkedin .
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Why I am saying so because as we growup our demand also increase and this demand are highly increase through socialmedia. This lead to highly increase expenditure if you can't afford then you end up with sadness/drepression. I know some of people can't believe it but I guarrented ki ye ek din mai jaaror aayega aur tab tume pata chalega ye chiz.So just don't worry guys just chill do that surf.
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DeleteI'm glad that you're out of that addictive cycle. Social media is addictive for sure!
DeleteMany people use it to their advantage but on the other side, it also causes depression.
Of course, we're just humans and manipulating us using our own emotions is what most sellers do. If the product is a solution to an issue and it's worth the money, merry Christmas!
But what about the things that are sold just to make money?
Social media is a place where people hide their insecurities to impress people.
I'm happy that you've realised what was wrong with you and I'm sure you'll be able to take good decisions for yourself.
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DeleteThe fact that you're saying this here means a lot to me. I'm proud of you as well. ๐
Much more needed this type of writting.Thanks bro!
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A reminder to all of us especially that we are using social media. Nice one! Thanks for this!
ReplyDeleteI'm happy that you enjoyed reading it Joana. Yes! Social media should be used keeping these things in mind.
DeleteThanks a lot for the support!
Totally Relatable in today's time.
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